tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113066802024-03-12T21:25:47.432-07:00More-Than-Finectfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.comBlogger186125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-25085461178664027792020-06-05T08:23:00.000-07:002020-06-18T13:40:30.530-07:00Black Lives Matter To Me, I Am YieldingToday, June 5, 2020 I am choosing to blog this rather than engage on social media. Perhaps I will share it at a later time. I doubt that until/unless I do, that anyone will even see it. That's ok. <br />
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I believe that Black Lives Matter. I believe that our world has not been fair, just or kind to people of color. I believe that I have benefited from the privilege of being born white. I believe that I have so much to learn and that nothing I add to the discussion right now is from a place of true understanding. I honestly believe I have a heart of love and a heart for unity and a heart for justice. I believe racial reconciliation at it's deepest level was handled at the cross ... but we have not walked in line with our blood unity because of sin that continues to wedge it's way in and drive us apart. Every time a black person has been mistreated, judged, discounted or left wanting because of their color is sin. It is wrong. It needs to change. We are one blood! We are one beautifully colored humanity rich in culture and diversity. <br />
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In this season I am considering myself a student... reading, watching, listening and really trying to take in perspectives from all angles. Black history, black peers, all peers, black preachers, and the perspective of prior generations who may not see things the way I do but still deserve my love and respect. <br />
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Since I work for a public/media organization ... I have a mandated responsibility to hold back on my reactions, opinions and engagement on social media. This has admittedly been frustrating when I want to participate with hashtags, black out posts and linking of arms on the soapbox of Facebook... but yet, I have had to check myself. What is important here... for my Facebook peers to check a box in their perception of who I am and how I think ... that makes it about me again, doesn't it? Also, and honestly... what do I really believe or understand about the current state of racism in our nation? <br />
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I am committed to engaging by watching, listening and figuring out where my efforts could best benefit the process in the long term. Past when the rallies are finished and the news has found something else to fixate on. Since I am not participating in the conversation as it relates to social media right now, I am fasting from posting my own frivolous and fun pictures, shares and stories for now. In this moment, I am yielding.<br />
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Prayer first. I really want to hear from God on this. That is important to me and has to be my grounding point. While praying this past week the phrases that have become so popular in the COVID season came back to mind in the context of racial justice. I think the Holy Spirit gave me these lightbulb moments: New Normal? Reset? YES. This is what we need. <br />
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May the people and the communities that have been so ravaged receive a blessing and as we rebuild and reengage in new ways may they flourish in ways we could never have imagined. May those in power have an ear inclined to listen, communicate and engage all people in community action plans and rebuilding.<br />
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Other steps, thoughts... several years ago our local chapter of Big Brother Big Sister that benefits young people of color was defunded and closed. I reached out to the Capitol region BBBS and it was confirmed that there is no current opportunity for new local engagement. I inquired about being an advocate when there is an opportunity to reengage this community. The fact that this program was not considered of value is an indicator of the issues at hand. Can I do anything else in this area. <br />
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Who in my sphere could use my advocacy or help? Small business, recent graduate, single mom, action group, ministry? Discovering, learning, opening up outside of myself. Where can I truly commit and sustain engagement? <br />
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Black lives matter to me. I've been yielding my online "platform" during this season as a show of respect. I am committed to being a part of the solution.<br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-39733111247559299492016-04-07T13:21:00.004-07:002016-04-07T13:29:59.857-07:00Mountains and Mole Hills There's that phrase "Time heals all wounds"... however in some cases, for me, time can make things feel awkward, scary, and even dreaded.<br />
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It can happen with relationships. We "should" get together. We "ought to" catch up sometime. The unreturned text/email or voicemail starts to look like a potential moment of discomfort so the relationship feels bruised ... until you call/text/email or set up the date and get reacquainted.</div>
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I had a situation recently where some dynamics changed with a commitment I had, so initially there was distance naturally created. When it became time to return to the previous schedule; details became slightly more complicated. Holidays, vacations, and some miscommunication then turned into a lapse of months rather than the original weeks... and picking up the phone to get things back on track became scary for me. Today, I finally pulled off the bandaid and made a final phone call to find a gracious and enthusiastic response waiting on the other side of the phone. Schedule resumed. </div>
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Ideally, we would never lose touch, drop the ball or neglect a responsibility or even passion. However, being human, that's highly unlikely. So when those things fall through the cracks; I hope to swallow my pride, pick up the phone, or pen... or shoes... and go from there. Yes, there will be times where it's uncomfortable and there will certainly be amends to be made, but I think more often than not I'll find that I have made a mountain out of a mole hill and wasted precious time over nothing.</div>
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ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-73541959340931868462015-11-18T13:09:00.002-08:002015-11-18T13:10:47.324-08:00Take Heart, Nothing Is WastedThis past Sunday, I both needed and wanted to get out for a longer-than-everyday jaunt on my favorite city/riverside trail/park route. I couldn't waste the beautiful fall afternoon. As I was plodding along through the leaves on the sidewalk, over the river and through the woods; I had flashbacks of various scenes come to mind. As faces and scenarios crept into my thoughts, I found myself combating feelings of regret, hurt, disappointment, confusion and anger while trying to breathe and keep pace. <br />
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I realize that that the heaviness of world events, excessive binge
watching of a certain tv drama, poor choice in eating fast food the
night before, and an excessively angst-y running playlist all played into
this particularly emotionally charged and difficult time on the pavement. Plus... like everyone else, I'm going through my own personal stuff. Go figure. Thankfully, I did have the beauty of the trees and river to distract me somein the midst of the inner shouting... and a final whispering in my ear. <br />
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"Nothing is wasted." <br />
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After I spent most of that hour being accused by <strike><span style="font-size: x-small;">my own thoughts </span></strike> lies like: "You always...", "You Never...", "See you were right...", "See, you were wrong..."; Finally, as I rounded the corner for my last half mile or so, those three words <strike><span style="font-size: x-small;">came</span></strike><span style="font-size: x-small;"> <strike>out of nowhere </strike> </span>were spoken to my heart, and they were just in time: <br />
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"Nothing is Wasted".<br />
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Not those hurts, not that battle, not that surgery, not that life so much shorter than seemed fair, not these tears, that relationship, not this super slow run, or caving to those french fries or anything else... even the leaves that have fallen from the trees have purpose. <br />
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There is a bigger picture. There are things I cannot or should not know. There are whys, whens, hows, wheres, and who's that I could never understand. I can be alert, wise, grow in depth of understanding and insight, become stronger and hopefully not repeat the things that are mistakes. <br />
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Really, my heart has actually been VERY encouraged recently. I am seeing God answer lots of prayers and keeping promises made. I have seen hopeless scenarios somehow turn out for the good. I am mostly joyful, hopeful and excited about life in the every day. Yet still, those accusations return. When they do, I am thankful to be armed with truth including all that is wrapped up in the words of Romans 8... no condemnation, freedom, Jesus, life, hope, intercession, salvation, victory, love. I am thankful for that still small voice. <br />
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None of this is wasted. Take heart oh my soul. Take heart brothers and sisters. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-46839798467555906812015-11-13T11:36:00.001-08:002015-11-13T11:40:33.422-08:00Choosing to Take a Fresh Look: Perspective Can Change EverythingThe other day was a breezy and grey sort of day... leaves were blowing around and it might have been a little damp out. Looking out my bedroom window at the limited view I could see across Franklin Street; it seemed like kind of a blah day. How quickly my perspective changed as I started meandering through the streets and saw the vibrant shades of yellow, orange and red that seemed even brighter against the grey sky. I realized it was actually an unusually beautiful day. It even took my breath away for a moment when I ran back onto my street and saw 3 or 4 different colors of trees all in a row right in front of my house! <br />
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There are some pieces of art that can appear pretty blah and boring from one vantage point, but if you get closer, or back off, look from the top down or from a different angle, something new and beautiful is exposed. Imagine if we never cut into a watermelon, only looked at that big green oval and never saw or tasted the bright pink inside. If we only ever sat behind the most beautiful person on the planet ... or never spoke to the wisest one, would we ever know that beauty and wisdom even existed?<br />
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Life definitely has times of miserable darkness. There are days that are just plain hard and painful, even whole seasons of life that can feel almost unbearable. I am not pretending that is not true. Just yesterday I was driving back to work from an errand to the bank with tears streaming down my face because of some situations in life that hurt like hell and I wish were different. But I also know when I step back and take a look; there is beauty and something better coming forth from even this.<br />
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There is a picture so much bigger than what we see in this moment. I can find rest in the knowledge that my God has so much more going on in the picture beyond what I can see. If I can fathom even a fragment of His great love for me, or recognize the depth of his creativity in this story He is writing it changes everything. When I look back at some of the moments in life that had seemed ugly and unnecessary, there is beauty exposed from this new perspective.<br />
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Once we can shift our gaze, get out of our chair, climb the mountain, walk outside... just change our point of view; there truly is something beautiful to be seen, even on the greyest of days. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-33107119503344453872015-11-05T11:45:00.000-08:002015-11-05T11:46:18.561-08:00Thanking As We GoIt is good to give honor where honor is due. All too often we wait until someone has passed from their mortal flesh or are nearing the end of their life to express gratitude and acknowledge them. What if we were more generous with our thanks and recognition along the way ... for the little and the great. Are we keeping our eyes open for those kinds of moments instead of the ones that we complain and grumble about? We can be quick to be snarky about annoyances, but are we giving shout outs just as freely? I have a feeling we would have a healthier and happier community if we moved in that direction. <br />
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As a Christian, I want to be the same way with my God. It doesn't take me long to cry out a request when I am in need, pain, disappointed, etc... but am I acknowledging the beauty, the progress and the good things just as much... ? I have found that when I start focusing on what I am thankful for, things change. Last night while doing this thankful thing, I started to have moments come to mind that had seemed like insurmountable boundaries for me emotionally/physically, etc... and I began to give thanks that I am on the other side... and then found hope arise within me. Wow.<br />
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Who has done something meaningful in your life recently (or in the past)? Have you told them? What has God done in your life that you haven't remembered to thank him for? Let's share our thanks and celebrate life along the way! ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-3077743522339539562015-11-02T14:14:00.003-08:002015-11-02T14:16:28.769-08:00Running the Race With Others I have a tattoo on my foot that says "I will run the race set before me" based on Hebrews 12:1 and also lyrics from a Misty Edwards song. I got my ink as a celebration after running my first half marathon and reminder to keep going both physically and spiritually. It also didn't hurt that tattoos in OBX are a steal in their off season and I had wanted one forever, just hadn't found the right one or right time. <br />
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Yesterday I had the opportunity to go for a run with my friend Denise. We have wanted to run together for a while, but our chances are limited to times that we are in the same state since she lives in NC and I in PA. I was thankful that we finally made it work during this visit. <br />
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Typically, I run alone. I enjoy that because I get my exercise and training in, but it's also good quiet time, too. However, it's also good for me to run with others from time to time for the comradery and also to be pushed. I am not super competitive with myself or with others, so I know that I don't always go as hard as I should on my own. I'm working on that though.<br />
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So, Denise has been training for the OBX Half Marathon which is the same one that I have run twice in the past. It's coming up next week. I had hoped to run it this year, but got debunked from my training and then lost focus and motivation. So, it had been 3 weeks since my last run. UGH. So, it was a bit humbling to go for a run with my well trained friend.<br />
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What was awesome was that Denise was willing to go at a pace that I could handle. Her training is essentially done and she just needed and wanted to put in some miles and run them with me. Though she encouraged me to keep going and motivated me; she did not expect me to run at her pace. I was thinking about it today. We are all at different places in our journeys and have different goals and callings. In life the "race and it's pace" for me is much different than it is for someone else. There are many times that cheerleading our friends in their races and running alongside them unites with our purpose. <br />
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Denise will be running HER literal race on Sunday, but she was joining me in mine in a sense as we ran together yesterday and she encouraged me through conversation and a healthy run We should not be afraid to spur each other on and encourage each other, and even slow our pace for a time in wherever our journeys our taking us while keeping sight of our own paths.<br />
<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-71893861514393888362015-10-29T13:16:00.001-07:002015-10-29T13:29:24.021-07:00Pictures and PrayerFor the past 8 or so years I've been involved with Gateway House of Prayer. It's a place that is open 24/7 for prayer, worship and intercession. Many different churches and denominations are represented there. Because I believe God is worthy, because having a set apart place is something I appreciate, and because I like the opportunity to join with others, (and many other reasons) I continue to be committed to at least one 2 hour period per week.<br />
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Last night while we were praying and singing; I had 2 different images come to mind. Sometimes when I am "listening" for what God might be trying to say to me; an image will come to mind, which most of the time I attribute to a picture given from/inspired by God.<br />
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As someone was reading from Ephesians about the height, depth, and breadth of God's love for us; I pictured a thermometer busting out at both ends and also one exploding from side to side. This image came to mind and shook me with a reminder that God wants to basically blow the roof and walls off of our expectations and limits that we put on his love for us. We think we can grasp it. We believe we can frustrate him to the point where He gives up on us ... or we put this limit on others. It seems like a simple thought but in that moment it was an overwhelming realization.<br />
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Later, I was thinking about distractions in life. I pictured a stairway cluttered with children's toys and thought about how easy it is to slip up on those little things we don't even see. I prayed that God would help us to see even the tiny marble sized things that are easily overlooked and could become a bigger problem/cause us to stumble and fall. I started out thinking about distractions in my own life but then ended up also seeing how this happens in marriages, churches, etc etc. Again, it seems simple but God was speaking important truth to my heart.<br />
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Recently I wrote a blog about listening and then followed it with some thoughts about looking. A couple of weeks ago I taught the 1st and 2nd graders at church about our Sabbath day of rest. It got me thinking about stopping and how that worked/should work in my life. (I had not planned for this to be a series) <br />
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Our lesson plans for the kids included playing some simple games to evaluate what is work, what is rest and what is play. What makes us tired? Can we help someone and still worship God? We found that for each of us different things fall into different categories. For one of the games, as I listed different activities, we all jumped to one side of a tape line for things we thought were work and the other side for things we viewed as restful. Not everyone agreed on what activities were work and what were rest; and that was ok. We talked about it. <br />
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I thought about it, too. Walking in the woods or going for a run or a long drive can be a perfect scenario for me to focus my heart on God. I could find it restful spending the day helping out at a farm or even cleaning my room.. But can I do "x" and FOCUS on God? I am well aware that it's when we truly stop and then rest that we remember that we
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I chat with God throughout my day, but this is something different ... this stopping. It's making a time set apart and holy. I have to consciously be mindful to do this. It should involve getting out of the daily grind, unplugging, stepping away, just being. Worship, Rest. Engage ... but first stop. <br />
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I often try to switch gears from a busy day into some sort of intentional time with God ... usually I read a quick something or other from my Bible App. Sometimes I journal. Sometimes I just start listing off desperate cries of prayer or intercession. Engaging with God on any level is good ... but that stopping and resting is so important and so key. I have learned so much about the value of the secret place and that set aside time. I know I must stop before doing the rest.<br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-34046362964448714132015-10-02T10:52:00.004-07:002015-10-02T10:56:09.313-07:00Am I Looking? A few weeks ago at church we were challenged to set aside time in our schedule in the weeks ahead to look at people. As in, intentionally schedule time to go to a busy place and just sit and observe, to take notice. We were to just watch and listen and be awakened to the people around us. Shouldn't we be doing this on a daily basis? Well, yes, of course. We don't, though, do we? <br />
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Just like we can hear without listening, we can look without really seeing. I can so often buzz in and out of stores, the gym, church, or the market and not really take in a single thing because I'm on a mission or have that next thing on the schedule to get to. Meanwhile, I will have walked past a struggling mom who needs a hand with her stroller, someone digging for that last 5 cents of change or maybe I could have noticed a glance, a tear or a smile and acknowledged it. There are people I see every day... people whom I genuinely love and care for... that I have missed noticing when something is not quite right because I am focused on my own agenda. <br />
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I'm not getting all guilt trippy here... but I am realizing and wanting to remember that there is so much pain, there are so many stories and so many needs. Sometimes just a smile, nod or kleenex offered will be enough. Aren't we all aching to be seen, heard, noticed, offered hope or even acknowledgement that we exist. I sure need it. God help me to be aware and to be looking. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-77589861251817880182015-09-22T11:39:00.001-07:002015-09-22T11:39:44.804-07:00Am I Listening?Lasting friendships require effort, interest, grace, patience, consideration and balance (and so much more). Communication is so important. Conversations that bounce back and forth as we balance sharing, inquiring, listening and hearing are the ones that result in true and deeper relationship. <br />
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It can be easy to lose balance. In the current culture in which we are constantly supplying the world with notifications,
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If my friend asks me about my day, am I careful to reciprocate? If we have a long conversation about a situation in my life and run out of time ... do I at least make a point of saying "I want to hear what's going on with you next time"? <br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-46925899774103502632015-09-11T09:59:00.000-07:002015-09-11T10:02:53.509-07:00Awkward Expressions and Remembrance When I was a child I attended more than my fair share of funerals. I came from a big family in a small town. We also were a generation that suffered a horrific number of alcohol related deadly accidents. There was a season when I was all too familiar with Kidders Funeral Home in Swanton, Vermont.<br />
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I have a vivid memory of being at the services for my Aunt Donna ... one of the first and closest ones for me. I was in 4th grade, I think. When I walked into the Wake with my family; I did not know how to act. I was afraid I would do the wrong thing. I remember that I smiled or laughed and then felt an extreme sense of fear and guilt. Thankfully, my Uncle John pulled me up on his lap and told me that there was no wrong feeling or emotion when suffering loss. That it was ok to be awkward and that Aunt Donna knew that I loved her and would want me to be ok. He told me I didn't have to be afraid or put on a brave face. It was so comforting and has been impactful even in recent years. In the face of death it is ok to live.<br />
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Today we remember the tragedy of September 11. Earlier this week the memes and posts started on social media reminding people to remember ... and in some cases challenging people to feel guilty and ashamed for "not remembering enough" or to follow a certain political agenda if they truly cared.<br />
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I feel compelled to remind that we all remember, reflect and honor in different ways. These may be manifest in actions both seen or invisible. They may be awkward. While some may gather around the water cooler and remember where they were, others are meditating privately, many will attend a public service or prayer meeting, others are posting photos and thoughts on facebook, or may decide to gather at a pub with friends. Feelings vacilate from shock, anger, sadness and fear to hope, resolve, pride and honor.<br />
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Some people celebrate their birthday on September 11th, or their anniversary, or an unrelated loss of family. Maybe today is the day to celebrate a childs first words or a promotion at work. You may find a really funny comic to share or recommend a movie online. It's all ok.<br />
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I think it's important that as we remember to remember, that we remember to live and have grace for each other. We remember to show and extend this grace by recognizing that an expression of grief or remembrance may be awkward or it may be internal. <br />
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I still can't see 911 or 9/11 or 9:11 or September or planes in the sky, the New York skyline, the American Flag, a firetruck or a beautiful September blue sky without remembering. My expression of that may not look like yours, but I remember. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-36745677065024631722015-08-26T14:09:00.002-07:002015-08-26T14:16:39.771-07:00The Run and the Stretch Last nights run almost didn't happen. I was feeling digestively challenged and could have skipped it without being truly just lazy... but I also knew that I had to get the miles in. I already had missed my scheduled 2 miler on Monday and this weekends longer run is going to be hard to fit in as it is. My Tuesday and Thursday runs have to happen and be an extra mile longer than planned. I'm on a training calendar working towards another half marathon in November. It's important to me that I don't get off course; especially since I'm not back to where I was in past years training. So ... tummy rumblings aside; I got myself out on the road right around 6:30.<br />
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I made the choice to run without headphones this time, which was a little unusual for me on a longer run. I followed one of my fairly regular and favorite 6 mile loops that goes around the city on my end of town, along the trail by the river and through the park and then up Chesapeake Street and back up through the center of town. It was a nice change to run and enjoy the peace. I was able to reflect and pray with only the sounds of the cars, crickets, river and my heartbeat to keep time to. I was racing the sunset so I also had the motivation to at least get out of the park and up the hill to Queen Street before dark. I found that I ran a bit more consistently and for longer stretches without feeling it, though there were plenty of forced pauses/stops at stoplights downtown between miles 4 and 5.<br />
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It was amazing to me that after feeling so yucky all day; I was even physically capable to get out there for this one. In actuality, I felt better while out there. Two moments caused me to pause and catch my breath for a moment due to feeling a bit sick, but otherwise it was the best I have felt in a couple of days. Strange that I felt better running than I do event right now or last night when I was trying to sleep. <br />
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So many times I put my perceived comfort before what is actually the better choice. More often than not, I am finding that the best moments are the ones just beyond my own expectations, involve pushing through the pain and silencing distractions. Moments like these are reachable, but sometimes I need to stretch for them. <br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-76622810641253802022015-08-16T10:17:00.000-07:002015-08-16T10:19:29.268-07:00Smelling the Everything While Getting Where I'm Going I've been doing a lot of pet sitting lately and loving it. Pet sitting is s fun for a while because I get to love and cuddle with some great animals without the long term responsibility of ownership. <br />
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Tumnus, a golden retreiver, is the dog I have watched the most. He was my first nephew, in a sense, and is my sweet buddy. When caring for a dog, there is of course more activity involved. They need more attention than most cats, and especially like to go for walks. When pet sitting for a dog, I know I will need to set aside at least some time in my schedule to walk the dog.<br />
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The walk is the dogs time. It's something I do for the dog; yet I kind of have had my own agenda: We're going to go this direction, move at this pace, and for goodness sake we are not going to keep STOPPING all the time. I call Tumnus: "Sir Sniffs A Lot" because he smells EVERYTHING, seemingly even more-so than other dogs. The last couple of times I've watched Tumnus, I challenged myself to let the walk be his time and to let him sniff, stop and even choose the direction we go when it is safe. <br />
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Today I was thinking about how the whole joy and purpose, even destination of his walk is to stop and smell everything. He learns about his environment, greets passers by (usually making someone smile), and finds tasty morsels along the way. So many times I am so propelled by my destination that I miss so much. Even on days that my destination is rest and enjoyment; I still blast past people, places and opportunities because I "have somewhere to be". Today, I am challenged to be a little more like Tumnus and to smell the everything on the way to getting where I'm going... and sometimes let that be the destination.ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-74401520742655236932014-07-18T15:34:00.000-07:002014-07-18T15:39:07.811-07:00A Realization of Grace Yesterday, I was at the Dr. about a tough batch of poison ivy and also to continue to treat a chronic infection called pouchitis and some other symptoms I've been having related to my digestive surgery stuff. After seeing a nurse and then a student, my nurse practitioner finally came in for my consultatation. When she walked into the room she asked if she could give me a hug ... knowing that I've been through it the past few months and seen much too much of their office.<br />
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Anyone who deals with chronic pain, immune deficiencies, or any other ongoing or recurring physical or mental/emotional anguish knows that you just can't explain how you feel most days. You get tired of trying to rate your comfort/discomfort on a scale because your scale is different ... Who knows what feeling good feels like?? It's exhausting trying to label it. I NEVER know what to say or how to explain how I feel to my peers or even the Dr. But strangely... most times you might not know whether I'm having a day that's a 3, 5 or 10 and I don't think it's just me covering it up... though I do grit my teeth and bare it from time to time. <br />
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I get a lot of comments from people about the fact that I tend toward the cheerful and the positive/hopeful attitude. I realize that it can be borderline annoying when I offer the silver lining to those struggling/feeling down. My parents say I was extra smiley and happy even as a baby.<br />
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Tonight it dawned on me that these aspects of who I am is actually and only the Grace that God has so kindly given me in order to sustain through the surgeries, medications, embarrassing emergency moments, exhaustion, pain, disappointment etc etc. Thank you God!!! His ways are still very confusing to me, I won't lie. But I am convinced that the ONLY reason I have retained sanity and not barrelled into a pit of sadness and frustration is that God has given me this gift of grace in making me joyful and that has become my strength since I was quite young with unexplainable tummy aches, pains and health stuff. <br />
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What grace(s) have you been given? What gifting, trait, or even person has he provided you with to help bring balance to your struggles? Discernment? Strength? A certain friend? Will Power? Confidence? Level Headedness? Humor? Ability? Compassion? Courage Creativity? Health? A Talent? The list never ends. I belive we all have things that, whether we realize it or not, are part of our armour... these things are the grace that we've been given to get through and even thrive in the midst of our personal battles. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-47635320803223924852013-10-22T08:38:00.001-07:002013-10-22T08:38:32.405-07:00More Years Is A Good ThingAs most of you know, I work in radio. We almost always have a drawing or contest of some sort at our live events. There is an entry field for age on our contest entry forms. We actually don't record that information anywhere; we use it for prize selection and for the types of letters that we send... so that a 52 year old doesn't get a Veggie Tales DVD, etc. Inevitably, though, we will have a woman at most events who declares "I'm NOT giving you my age" or some similar comment. It always strikes me as funny. What's the big deal? Isn't it a blessing to gain years? I mean really, if our age isn't increasing... then we are dead. Who decided that age was something to be embarrassed or ashamed of?<br />
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Getting older hasn't bothered me much. Maybe it's because most people associate declining health with increased age and I dealt with some serious health issues early on? Perhaps it's due to the fact that I have gained some confidence and self awareness in the last several years (Thank you Jesus). Whatever the reason, I keep finding that I actually am enjoying life <b>MORE</b> the older I get. <br />
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We have an opportunity to give hope to the next generations by living our lives joyfully at every stage. Think about your phase of life and the possibilities that lie ahead. How can you be a good steward with your life and your time? What impact can you make? What can you do now that you could not do before? What can you try? These are much more worthwhile things to focus on than fretting about wrinkles, gray hair or what you may have missed along the way! <b>(<span style="font-size: x-small;">Disclaimer: In all honesty, I do sometimes fret and ask God why about things that have not happened in my life yet</span>)</b><br />
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When I was little, I spent a decent amount of time around my great grandmother who we affectionately called "Nanny". Nanny was a "no nonsense" and spunky kind of woman. (She also made the most delicious dinner rolls that cannot be replicated). My 92 year old great grandmother had beautiful long silver hair and I remember thinking I wanted to look just like her when I got older and that I would never dye my hair for the sake of coloring over grey. Well, I'll admit once the wiry little suckers started to appear two by two like the animals entering the ark... I did start to color my hair... but I hope and plan to live with spunk, grace and impact ... and to age with grace. I'm happy to report that I'm almost 39. Next year is 40. That's something to celebrate... not dread!<br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-31539178456926412882013-10-03T17:47:00.001-07:002013-10-03T17:48:50.359-07:00Keeping the Scales BalancedI feel like I often will get a pretty good handle on one thing in my little world but then inevitably I let others slide.<br />
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This past year as I have celebrated some milestones in fitness, I have also gotten behind in some other important facets of my life. I'm trying to regroup and gain ground, but it makes me kinda nervous that as I focus and make some strides I'll lose focus on the areas I'm doing well. I know that doesn't have to be the case. <br />
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I think that exercise has become enough of a way of life for me that I'll be ok, but fear does creep in. As the Half Marathon draws near and the holidays follow right behind, I really have to stay motivated so I don't lose focus. I also need to make my other goals just as much a priority as my running and fitness goals.<br />
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Time to pray for balance and consistency (again)! <br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-21652484685897178122013-09-18T08:50:00.000-07:002013-09-18T08:50:21.185-07:00Noticing the Beautiful Bank TellerThere is a certain teller at our bank that greets me with an enthusiastic hello and smile each and every time I come in. <b>Each and every time</b>. She listens to WJTL (the radio station that I work at) and was more than excited when we moved to the area and started coming in to her branch. I often leave the bank feeling joyfully overwhelmed by her friendliness and sincerity as she asks questions and mentions favorite songs.<br />
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Today when I walked into the bank I was being taken care of at another window, but heard a familiar friendly voice nearby. There was my friendly teller with a big smile, a brightly colored scarf around her neck and a head topped with beautiful glowing baldness. How had I missed it. She had been gone several weeks as she was treated for chemotherapy. Before I had the chance to say hello first, she asked me about Lisa Landis, one of my co-workers who has struggled with her own health battle this summer. I updated her on Lisa and she then shared how the timing coincided with her own journey with Cancer. <br />
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I had to wonder how many times she had served me in the Spring with her friendly smile while dealing with her battle on the inside? How many weeks was she fighting back tears while I possibly not so patiently waited for her to handle my deposits and banking needs? As I left the bank, I teared up a little as I was reminded that we are all fighting our own battles on the inside. I know there are days that I struggle with my own things that make it a little tougher to smile and be friendly. Sometimes you want someone to ask and sometimes you just need someone to smile back.<br />
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It was another good reminder to love my neighbor, extend extra grace, and give the benefit of the doubt. I want to walk around with my eyes open and notice when someone needs a little extra. Those are the moments when God is able to move through us ... when we notice the beautiful bank teller, the clerk at the grocery store, or the tired person walking past on the street.<br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-24549858121081090072013-09-06T06:36:00.004-07:002013-09-06T06:36:55.412-07:00Getting There: The Journey ExplainedLast night I posted this before and after picstitch on Facebook and Instagram. It was so encouraging to see all the likes and comments. I have good people in my life who have loved me well along the way.<br />
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The before pictures were taken back in 2002/2003 so it's been a good 10 years, about 100 lbs, a large intestine removal, and half a thyroid removal under the bridge since I was at my heaviest. :) Since then, I roller-coastered on the Atkins diet (losing 100, gaining back probably 50 or 60 of that) and for a while after that continued yo-yo-ing my weight. I had been on diets/weight loss plans/drag your ass out of bed and go for a walk schemes since I was in grade school. Sixth grade: Weight Watchers. Nuff said.<br />
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It's been the past few years where I have re-lost the weight and found a steady-ish pace of healthy weight loss and maintenance. I am actually, finally proud of myself when I look in the mirror. I had been too embarrassed to show the worst of my before pictures for quite a long while. Then I came to the point where I carried them around with me for reference to show how far I've come... then pulled them out to show people here and there and now posting for all to see. I admit that there is still that part of me that fears that when people who "didn't know me when" will judge me when they see them. But again, I was also on prednisone and struggling with Ulcerative Colitis at it's worst when I was at my heaviest weight. (but also eating junk food like it was my job).<br />
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I am a small framed person, and I realize that I still have a good amount of weight to lose to be at a totally healthy size for me. But, I'm actually getting there! In the past couple of months it has been especially encouraging to have a few people who struggle with their own weight actually ask ME how I did it. Weird but awesome.<br />
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First of all... God. Hours and tears and prayer and comfort and whispers from the Holy Spirit are the most important thing that I have in every aspect of my life. It is possible (for many reasons) that I would not be alive if it weren't for God's strength both in my health and emotions. He gets the glory for this and for everything. <br />
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Also, I found activities that I enjoy and they led me to finding other activities that I enjoy and so on. Then it went from fun to wanting to challenge myself. I started swing dancing and blues dancing very regularly. Then, my friend Erica introduced me to my favorite work out ever: Les Mills Body Jam at Universal Athletic. LOVE IT. There are 3 instructors in particular (Kate, Sarah, Sheldon) that make that class especially fun and motivating for me. I started adding in Body Pump and trying out other classes. Then, 2 years ago I went through the Couch 2 5K running program. I NEVER HAD RUN! I decided I was done with the word can't and figured I'd try it out and even signed up for a 5K to work toward. I have now run tons of 5ks, 5 milers, some 10ks and am training for my 2nd half marathon in November and even looking ahead at challenging myself to running a full marathon, hopefully before turning 40 in December 2014.<br />
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So, I guess I am posting this for a few reasons... to acknowledge where I've come from. I'm proud of myself. Grandma might think that this was inappropriate to say out loud. :D But I think this kind of pride is ok once in a while. Also, I hope this encourages or inspires someone to have fun on the journey... get active and eat healthy but enjoy it!!! Then challenge yourself beyond what you think you can do ... and heck yes there are lots of days where you just have to go do the hard thing... but it's so worth it when you realize you are actually doing it and getting there!!!<br />
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December 23, 2014 I turn 40. I have a year and 4(+) months... almost a year and a half. I've made 10 attainable but decent sized goals to shoot for by 40. <br />
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<span style="background-color: yellow;"><strike>1. Sky Dive : Have had opportunities but not the cash. (need to save $): </strike></span><span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="background-color: yellow;"><strike>DONE: AMAZING</strike></span></span><br />
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2. Get up on water skis, finally... I have tried numerous times in years past... didn't have an opportunity to try yet this year... but Im' hopeful since Ive been doing more strength training that this could become easier. <span style="background-color: yellow;">Tried: will try again</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: yellow;"><strike>4. pay off school loan (that is getting closer) </strike></span><br />
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5. learn to drive stick... had a lesson once YEARS ago' <span style="background-color: yellow;">UPDATE: HAD ONE TRY AT IT. STILL NEEDS WORK</span><br />
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6. Travel somewhere new <br />
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7. Learn/Try surfing<br />
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9. Hike a decent mountain. Of course I've hiked but it's been a while since I've REALLY hiked... <br />
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10. Run a 10 minute mile 5k<br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-16872261765770705002013-07-10T08:00:00.001-07:002013-07-10T08:00:19.238-07:00Radical OptimismI have always been a glass half full kind of girl. I generally trust people and see the good in them until proven otherwise rather than being skeptical. Maybe some would say to the point of naivete in some situations... but I have always liked this quality in myself.<br /><br />The other night I joined a bunch of ladies to hear from my friend Ashlea as she shared God’s intention for women and our role as influencers. I took so many good notes and can’t stop thinking about various aspects of what she shared. We have a power that can be used for good or for very bad in this role... but that’s for another blog.<br /><br />One thing that she shared that I have been thinking a lot about is “having a culture of radical optimism”. That’s typically right up my alley... but admittedly as life on this earth scuffs me up and bangs me and the people I love around; it can be easy to fall into the role of doubter/pessimist or what some would say “realist”. Are they who they say they are? Shouldn’t I prepare myself for the worst? <br /><br />Why is it ok and even right for me to be radically optimistic? Well, since I base my life upon the truth of scripture one place I can turn to is 1 Corinthians 13:7 where it says “ Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. The Message version says “always looks for the best”. <br /><br />I know that the character of God is to be good. I know that He is Love. I know that He can be trusted. I know that we are to Love God and our neighbor... therefore, I must continue to believe for the best in every situation and understand that in my limited understanding the best may not be what I imagine it to be. I do not mean that I forsake discernment or that I will be unwise... in fact I have key people in my life that I turn to to help me find balance in this area ... but may my first reaction be to believe for the best from God and from others. <br />
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Well, this may seem small... but at my office there was actually an extra VEGGIE tray and hummus available to round out lunches. (there are often free goodies, ie the donuts that were here when I arrived today... but produce?? sweet! ) At Gateway House of Prayer there were free bananas and delicious apples available left over from the race this past weekend and pretzels to snack on from a meeting over the weekend. SCORE. Best yet, I've actually really enjoyed eating some of the typically ignored items in my cupboard. I am well aware that my shelves would look like a supermarket to most people in the world. Still, this is a movement in the right direction for me and evidence of God hearing my prayers for help in this area of self discipline, and I am thankful. <br />
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<br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-47693094585439902742013-02-02T12:27:00.001-08:002013-02-02T12:27:31.618-08:00Wealth in the Form of SkinWe used to sing this song at a church I attended that said "When I think of His goodness and what He's done for me; when I think of His goodness and how He set me free I could dance, dance, dance, dance, dance, dance dance all night" (Then insert shout, praise, clap, etc etc). <br />
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I was just thinking about God's goodness in my life... there are SO many facets to His goodness that it's overwhelming. (creation, salvation, provision, health, breath, love, etc etc etc) Today, I am focused on His goodness to me represented by the people and places that me... a girl from rural VT ... has had the privilege to experience. SERIOUSLY?! <br />
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I'm only 38... and feel like I have already received a lifetime worth of relationships through some pretty unlikely connections along the way. <br />
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May I never lose this wonder and excitement for knowing people. Though there have been some excruciating emotional bumps and bruises along the way; I am so glad that God in His mercy and faithfulness toward me has made it possible for me to keep my heart so wide open. I think I'm learning that even some of the aspects of my life that I have hated... have been for my good in this area... allowing me more of these kinds of opportunities that otherwise I would have missed. <br />
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If you were to measure my wealth by looking at my bank account... it would be laughable... and in fact you might have some questions regarding my wisdom :). But today I feel very rich because of the lives I am already so blessed to have rubbed up against and those that are yet to come.ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-91862767938610840602013-01-31T14:22:00.005-08:002013-02-01T06:13:15.453-08:00Heart Stretched<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'm restless.<br />
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After returning from a whirlwind trip to Ethiopia with Compassion International (see my blogs at <a href="http://wjtl.com/blogs/staff/stacey-gagne/">my wjtl blog</a>) I am now in that strange place where it feels like my heart is stretched between continents.<br />
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With this being my second trip to Ethiopia, it was no longer the shock and awe feeling of visiting Africa for the first time like it was in 2010. I was not nervous. I had a certain understanding of what to expect. There was a level of familiarity, friends to reconnect with and a job to do. I was there to report about the ministry of Compassion International and to encourage our radio listeners to get involved, sponsor a child, pray, and come on a future trip. I found myself very focused on my purpose... with a heightened level of responsibility to do an excellent and comprehensive job of reporting, while also also trying to soak in the time with the kids and my friends there. I felt so alive and in my element. From what friends and family are saying to me, that is evident in photo's and live reports, too. I agree with them. I had trouble sleeping at night... I think beyond the jet lag it was also a subconscious attempt at not wasting any of my time there. (though sleep really would have been helpful).<br />
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Once we got to the last day or so of the trip I felt the dread of the end coming too soon. "What! No, I'm not ready to board that plane!!!" Thankfully we had very busy days, so I had little time to focus on those feelings, but they were present and became increasingly more painful as Friday progressed. Since I do have a return trip planned for August this year... I tried not to dwell too much...and I tried to avoid an over dramatic goodbye as I loaded my luggage onto the cart and wheeled up the ramp to the airport with the rest of the team. But, ouch.<br />
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Now here I am back home. I'm trying to share my experiences with others... trying to communicate the beauty of this culture alongside expressing the great need and opportunity for people to be a help and an encouragement. I'm preparing for our on air campaign in February, anxiously hoping to reach our goals of getting these kids sponsored ... and counting the days to August.<br />
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I'll soon begin to slide back into my life and schedule here ... but I'm also feeling a tugging in my heart... a wondering about what else God has in store for me and for these connections I am forming with this place, these people, this culture. There is more to this story. <br />
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I'm also trying to take the core values of child advocacy and live them out now... loving kids, telling them about Jesus, being an encouragement to families, praying!<br />
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God help me to make the most of these experiences. God help me to lay all of this at your feet and say thy will be done. God help me to remain open-hearted and open handed... and to never take for granted these experiences or these people that are holding my heart on the other side of the world. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-54967873505991566602012-11-21T12:25:00.002-08:002012-11-21T12:25:17.875-08:00Finding CommunityToday I am feeling especially warm... admittedly partially due to the warm wool sweater I am wearing... but more-so because I am really thinking about the blessing of being involved in Community (not the sit-com, either).<br /><br />There is a longing in my heart for it. First and foremost, communion with God is what my soul hungers and thirsts for. This I know in my very core. This I still neglect far too often.<br /><br />Today, though, I am talking about the horizontal kind... from person to person. Oh how we want it. To be connected. To be united. To belong. Really, to have family beyond the biological. It doesn't just happen, though. <br /><br />This morning I was thinking about how we find ourselves in that place of community and how there is an investment required. What a worthwhile investment, though. Last night after our “watch” at Gateway House of Prayer, I was sitting around with our team talking through the details of our music and prayer time. We discussed technical/sound things, the music, songs, etc. and also shared what we sensed overall as we prayed and worshiped. As we were talking we unanimously agreed how much we enjoy the opportunity we have to do this weekly as a consistent team. Now ... there are weeks that even though I know God is worthy and even though I enjoy the time spent with the team and LOVE singing ... some nights I miss having the evening at home, or maybe I get frustrated with certain aspects of the give and take of working with a team, etc etc etc. But the investment and time “sacrifice” is so worth it. I have seen the benefits of consistently coming together with one purpose... we are building community with each other as we invest our time and our hearts. We are also able to be more creative as we trust each other to corporately “go for it” in seeking Gods heart together.<br /><br />This same sort of thing applies in all spheres of life... my job, my dancing buddies, church, family, school, neighborhood, etc. <br /><br />Day one of spending time with someone; you rarely, if ever, feel that depth of relationship... it involves vulnerability, giving of self, giving of time, and more. If there is an expectation of feeling included, loved and valued and a part of something, the reality is I must give ... and maybe for a period of time before the pay off of belonging is felt. We also have to realize that along the way we will be bruised, we will say things that bruise others and we will need to be willing to forgive and accept forgiveness. Messy, lovely, exhausting, rewarding ... but to me, community is worth it.<br /><br />ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11306680.post-54657933759703390752012-09-16T11:53:00.004-07:002012-09-16T12:03:51.258-07:00The Art of Saying No<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Who knows how many times I've blogged on this subject, but here I go again.<br />
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I'm constantly learning the art of "No". It's a work in progress.<br />
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I had someone ask me to bake something for a church event last week, and was so pleasantly surprised when she THANKED me for saying no. That really was helpful to hear. I really didn't have time and am not even living at home right now, so it would have been really tough to pull off.<br />
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This weekend was scheduled full with so many fun things from concerts to day trips to parties. But with dog sitting and feeling a little under the weather; I actually chose to guard my time. For me this is growth... because in the past I would have just gone to as many things as I could until I crashed.<br />
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My choices allowed me to spend a little extra time here at the house dog sitting and giving ole Mr. Tumnus the attention he deserves. I was able to get my long run in this morning (8.5 miles... woot, woot). I got to go on a day trip with friends yesterday... but passed on the concert I was REALLY excited about going to in favor of some ice cream and conversation and an early night in watching The Voice on Hulu. (I wept openly while watching it).<br />
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So, I missed/am missing some dancing, a game night, a concert, church services, a picnic and a birthday party... but I gained some sanity, some rest and hopefully some health as I keep trying to kick this cold. Now, I'm going to do a little cleaning for the bro and sister in law so they don't come home to a house infested with hair balls... and try to make it an early night, with maybe a walk so that Mr. Tumnus can continue his quest to sniff or pee on every blade of grass and/or tree trunk in Lancaster City.<br />
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Welcome new week full of choices, God give me the grace to choose wisely. ctfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17841687819224987088noreply@blogger.com3